Exercise
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Changing
Your Mindset - The Reality of Fat Loss
Mike Howard
“What is the
fastest way to lose my belly”, “what should I be avoiding
to lose weight”, “what kind of exercises can I do
to shrink my butt”, “I need to lose 30 pounds –
how do I do it?”. After years of being inundated with these
kinds of questions (and by my own admission, not knowing where
to begin when answering them), I was finally struck by a simple
and yet undeniable revelation… The first thing that these
“would-be-belly/butt-shrinkers” needed to change was
their mindsets. Their focus was almost always on short-term results
and scale weight loss, and most of them were disappointed when
I didn’t have a simplistic answer for them. This got me
thinking… where have all of these unrealistic expectations
come from? It seems that the sensible approaches to managing weight
have buckled under the powerful force we have come to know as
unscrupulous marketing. We are told that losing copious amounts
of weight in a short amount of time is both realistic and desirable.
We are told that there is a simple, single reason why we are fat,
and are provided with an equally simplistic solution. We are told
that scale weight loss is akin to “success”. All of
these promises usually come in the form of neatly-packaged, well-marketed
publications. In short, people trying to drop body fat are being
set up for imminent failure by a group of people who are creating
and perpetuating half-truths, misconceptions and flat-out lies.
The result… thousands upon thousands of people suffering
the emotional setbacks associated with feelings of failure.
The Age of Instant
We’ve all seen
it (or lets face it, experienced it ourselves). Tapping a foot
angrily as our microwaves take a full 2 minutes to cook; sighing
as our ADSL is a half-second slower than usual; cursing at the
nerve of the ATM that takes too long to spit out the transaction
record. Technological advances have created an instant-results-oriented
culture who has bought into the expectation that like everything
else – weight loss should be instant. Despite overwhelming
research that we should go the way of the tortoise – not
the hare when it comes to winning the losing battle, people continue
to desperately search for the “quick fix” for their
excess weight. “Guru’s” and other promoters
of questionable methods and fad diets are more than happy to oblige
this need, promising a quick-and-easy product, program or diet
that they tout as “revolutionary”. Invariably, people
learn the hard way and are left disappointed, and in many cases,
worse off then they were prior to starting their “band-aid”
method. Are we supposed to believe that we can undo years of poor
lifestyle habits in a matter of months, weeks or even days? In
echoing the message of rational health care professionals and
other organizations, long term fat loss success is almost always
gradual and non-linear. In other words, we should be looking to
lose no more than 1-1.5 lbs per week (2 max), and also expect
our weight loss to vary from week to week. In fact, one should
consider not weighing themselves at all (more on this later).
The bottom line is, people have a right to know that their journey
towards fat loss and better health can be (and usually is) a long
and bumpy one. This isn’t to say that somebody can’t,
or won’t lose (and keep off) large amounts of weight, or
that they should be discouraged from setting challenging goals.
Rather, they need to know what is considered realistic, and what
is not.
Changing the Definition of Success
A study out of the
University of Pennsylvania asked a group of obese women the following
four questions; 1) What is your dream weight? 2) What is the weight
at which you’d be happy? 3) What is the weight you’d
find acceptable? 4) What is the weight that you’d find disappointing?
The average dream weight amounted to a loss of 69 pounds (32%
of body weight). The “acceptable” weight was 55 pounds
(25% weight change) and the weight loss that they would consider
“disappointing” was 37 pounds (17% of body weight).
After 48 weeks, half the women did not even achieve their “disappointed”
weight. This study encapsulates the false reality that we have
been thrust into by deceiving marketers, which has manifested
itself into the formulation of unrealistic expectations. We have
created an overemphasis on the importance of scale weight –
to the point where it is the sole determinant of success. Not
only is scale weight incessantly touted as a primary indicator
of achievement, but we are also told that losing a lot of weight
in a short period of time is both realistic and desirable.
Truth be told, scale
weight in itself is inherently deceptive. To summarize, body composition
(percentage of body fat) is independent of body weight, and losing
body FAT (which may or may not translate into scale loss) DOES
promote improved appearance and better health. (And who says I’m
long-winded!). Additionally, there are daily, transient changes
in scale weight due to fluid intake/retention, sugar stores in
the muscle, time of day, time of month, etc. With its volatility
and lack of validity as a predictor of health, it amazes me how
we give the scale so much power to influence our emotions. Meanwhile,
more and more studies, including one recently published in the
Journal of the American Medical Association, are revealing that
physical fitness is a more powerful predictor of heart health
than is weight. This brings to light, the importance of shifting
the focus towards activity-centered lifestyle changes, whilst
shifting the focus away from “losing weight”. The
“lose weight at all costs” mentality puts one on a
predictable road towards failure.
Obesity and
Overfatness – Complex causes, multifaceted solutions
One of the more prominent
lies about weight and weight management being fueled by the weight
loss industry is the oversimplification of the causes and solutions
of obesity. Breaking things down in layman terms is one thing
– but citing a single cause of obesity is inaccurate, and
often used as a sales-driven tactic to pedal books and/or products.
We’ve all heard it before “We’re fat because
we eat too many carbs”, “We are fat because of excess
cortisol”, “We’re fat because we eat carbs and
protein together”, “We are fat because we are O-negative
blood types and eat lentils”. The list goes on… and
low-and-behold; the solution to our abject state of girth is to
remove the single, alleged culprit. One could make the argument
that being overweight is simply a matter of taking in more calories
than you expend – and one would be correct. However, there
are a multitude of underlying behavioural, psycho-social and genetic
factors that influence the calorie balance equation. So, as easy
as it is in theory to simply burn off more than you take in, there
remains deeper territory to be uncovered. Therefore, until these
deep-rooted causes are figured out, there cannot be an effective
plan of action that will facilitate long-term results.
The Bottom
Line
When embarking on
a fat loss endeavor, it is easy to become enthralled by surface-level
and short-sighted approaches. Unfortunately, these methods offer
little in the way of long-term promise. Before mapping out a plan
(or following a cookie-cutter program or diet), I advise you to
take a step back and examine things from a holistic perspective
– starting with your mindset. Many people quit their exercise
programs and diets because they failed to mentally equip themselves
for their undertaking. We need to re-wire our brains to not only
participate in these health-enhancing habits, but also to embrace
and enjoy the journey. This takes time. It also takes patience,
perseverance, planning, realistic goal-setting, relapse prevention
strategies and support from those around us. When all these things
come together, it makes it much easier and pleasant to navigate
through behavioural changes. Perhaps the most important thing
to remember, though, is this; you need to know and believe that
you can do it, and you also have it in you to make significant
changes to your health and body. So before you even touch a weight
or jump on a stariclimber, exercise that all-important area between
your ears.
5 Tips for building a mind for health
1. Understand what
you are up against:
It is important not to underestimate the physical, psychological
and emotional challenges of losing fat and living a healthy lifestyle.
It takes effort, commitment and desire to be successful in such
a journey. An aloof approach or a failure to realize the implications
of becoming active is a recipe for falling off the wagon. Take
a realistic approach to your undertaking, but avoid putting pressure
on yourself, too. Your journey should have elements of fun to
it.
2. Set appropriate
goals:
- When mapping out goals, be sure that they are; specific, realistic,
multifaceted and flexible.
- Specific: Instead of “lose inches”, you might say
“lose 2 inches from my waist by Christmas.
- Realistic: Take into consideration how much time and effort
you are able or willing to dedicate to your endeavor. Consider
every aspect of your lifestyle you can think of. If your goal
is weight loss, consider the lightest you have ever been as an
adult, and how long you were at that weight for. Consider also
measuring progress in terms of inches and body fat %.
- Multifaceted: Try not to focus solely on weight or inches. Include
intangible goals such as; increased self-esteem, better energy,
increased enjoyment of activity, healthier food choices.
- Flexible: There is nothing wrong with re-evaluating and adjusting
goals. In fact, this should be encouraged.
- Include short-term and long-term goals - focus on the shot-term
goals
3. Identify Barriers
towards Success:
The first step here is to recognize the difference between barriers
and obstacles. A barrier is something you cannot control, such
as; your work schedule, family commitments, illness, etc. Obstacles
on the other hand, are situations that you can work around such
as; lousy weather, getting up early and missing a reality TV show.
Those that view barriers as obstacles and obstacles as challenges
are much more likely to stay on track of their exercise and healthy
eating plans.
4. Use mental Imagery:
Think about connecting your physical actions with your mind. Using
imagery can elicit your unconscious mind to motivate you towards
success. This can help prepare you to enjoy the activities that
you will partake in. Because imagery can enhance emotions and
desires, this can eventually lead to intrinsic exercise motivation
- doing it for the pure enjoyment of it. Think about how great
you will feel on your bike, or how the fat will melt off your
body along with the sweat. Visualize yourself cutting up veggies
and throwing them into a salad. And how tasty that salad will
be when you eat it.
5. Draw up a lifestyle
contract:
Putting on paper what you want to accomplish and what you are
willing to do to accomplish these things. State how you are willing
to make your health a priority, and that you refuse to feel guilty
if you should fall off the wagon. Sign and date your contract
and put it somewhere will you will see it often.
Mike Howard is the owner of Core Concepts Wellness Solutions
– a health and fitness services provider that specializes
in health seminars, personal training and workplace wellness.
He is the author of “Winning the Losing Battle - The Truth
about Fat Loss©”, and teaches courses based on the
manual in the Greater Vancouver area. For more information, he
can be reached at coreconcepts@shaw.ca